Regarding me being upset specifically, you can't take away things from me, a good woman at age 28.  All I did was say something to counter the mean treatment.  I am not listening to you like you're the boss.  You're barely a part of my life and can't just come in at your own convenience to hurt me emotionally and socially.  I'm not letting that happen.  I don't wanna fight you.  I just want this to stop.  These people keep talking to me in private, I know, and who knows what my dad will get involved in.  I don't like what he did.

You're the one who attacked, and I think you're something like punished yourself.  I didn't punish you, but you accept punishment from people other than me.  I will not let things slide by like this on some days.  My life is on a strict moral regiment.  It'll be over before I know it, which must be partially happy news for you.  Who knows, maybe ya'll even think it should end soon.  That's the feeling I got from my dad, who's being like a guy who doesn't practice self-control in social life in secret, like you can't say oh he did this or that.  He does it in secret message.

This is getting a bit painstaking if I have to talk about anything else much longer.