Well, I was mad and just said to myself I wasn't dealing with this shit and couldn't seem to stop and separate people from that thought or one person was coming or they really did it, so I just didn't call them that or anything.  I got mad at my dad putting on the Chinese.  I really am not up for his inconvenience.  You might think secretly and sneakily I am getting away with attacking my dad, but I was defending myself.  :|