Stuck Up Posse

Why are all the people I like conversing with those I am uncomfortable with who know me?  I saw someone speed in and out of my situation convincing extended family all to hate on me.  My dad didn't want me to visit them, anymore, cuz I changed my mind like 3 times, but he didn't say that.  I don't want like say my best friend to get too close to my parents.  I have a right to discuss this.  That's like having a boyfriend and having your nuisance of a father meeting up with him for a long time.  Or your mom talking to much to your favorite teacher??